Links to VAA events

• • Adoption Focus (Midlands – see here for specifics) – event details here
  • Adoption Matters (North West, North East, Yorkshire & the Humber, Stoke, Staffordshire, Shropshire and North Wales) – event details here
  • ARC Adoption NE (North East from Northumberland, across to Cumbria and down to North Yorkshire) – event details here
  • Caritas Care (North West, including Lancashire, Greater Manchester, and Cumbria) – drop-in event details here, online event details here
  • CCS Adoption (South West England) – event details here
  • Coram (London and surrounding areas) – event details here
  • Diagrama Adoption (London, Surrey, East and West Sussex and Kent) – Q&A event details here, online event details here
  • Family Futures (London) – event details here
  • Kibble Adoption (Scotland) – event details here
  • PACT (Southern and central England) – event details here
  • St David’s Adoption Service (Wales) – event details here
  • St Andrews Children’s Society (Scotland – within a 60 mile radius of Edinburgh, Aberdeen and Elgin) – event details here
  • Yorkshire Adoption Agency – (Yorkshire and surrounding areas) event details here

Information about VAA events (ordered alphabetically)

Adoption Focus (Midlands – see here for specifics)

6pm, Wednesday 15^th January – Online information event

Adoption Focus’s online information events are a great way to learn more about adopting, the adoption process and how Adoption Focus can support you.

They’re ideal if:

• you’re in the early stages of researching adoption
• you want a general overview of how the adoption process works
• you’ve been looking into adoption for a while and feel ready to start the process with Adoption Focus, an Ofsted ‘Outstanding’ rated agency
• you’re contacting local agencies to decide which one to proceed with
• you want to find out more about the children who are waiting to be adopted
• you have specific questions you’d like to talk through privately with an expert
• you’re interested in an early permanence route into adoption.

They’re free to attend and you’ll get all the information you need with no obligation to continue.

To book onto one of their upcoming online or face to face events, please call  0121 779 0891, email info@adoption-focus.org.uk or use the form here:  https://www.adoption-focus.org.uk/Event/online-events. You’ll be sent all the details before the event.

If you can’t see an event that fits in with you, Adoption Focus can arrange a one-to-one online session for you. Please get in touch.

Adoption Matters (North West, North East, Yorkshire & the Humber, Stoke, Staffordshire, Shropshire and North Wales)

7-8.30pm, Wednesday 15^th January – Online information event

Attending an Adoption Matters online adoption information event is a convenient way to find out more about this outstanding Ofsted rated agency and the support that it offers to children and families. All that you need to attend is internet access and ideally a device with a camera. Click HERE for more information and to register.

The events are hosted by experienced members of the enquiry team alongside a social worker. During the event they will share a presentation with you, chat through the adoption process and the ongoing support that they offer. They will also give you a chance to ask questions.

Their events last around an hour to an hour and a half, depending on how many questions are asked. Joining instructions will be sent to you 2-3 days before the event.

The events are open to anyone who is interested in adoption that lives in their geographical coverage area which is: the whole of the North West, North East, Yorkshire & the Humber, Stoke, Staffordshire, Shropshire and North Wales. If you live just outside of these areas, they may still be able to assist you, so please do contact the team to discuss.

ARC Adoption NE (North East from Northumberland, across to Cumbria and down to North Yorkshire)

6-8pm, Wednesday 15^th January 2025 – Face to Face Adoption Information Event at ARC Adoption NE office in Sunderland

Join ARC Adoption NE at its office in Sunderland for its first face to face information event of 2025 to find out more about adoption and the children in need of loving, permanent families. Event Details: Wednesday 15th January 2025, 18.00 to 20.00 (please note that this is not a drop in session – the event runs for approx. 2 hrs). Book a place here.

At this event, which is being hosted in conjunction with Big Adoption Day, you will have the opportunity to meet some of ARC Adoption’s friendly team who will tell you more about the adoption process and the extensive support they provide to their children and families. They will also be joined by parents of a little boy who will share their experience of adopting with the group, and help answer any questions you may have.

The team is really looking forward to meeting you and helping you discover whether adoption is the right path for you and your family – now or in the future. It could be the start of an exciting 2025.

If you can’t make this information event, why not join ARC at a virtual weekday-evening event instead. Click here to see upcoming dates.

Caritas Care (North West, including Lancashire, Greater Manchester, and Cumbria)

1-3pm, Wednesday 15^th January – Drop-in event at 218 Tulketh Road, Preston PR2 1ES.

Caritas Care’s Big Adoption Day event is the perfect opportunity to explore how you can grow your family with the support of their experienced and friendly team. Drop in anytime between 1pm and 3pm – and if possible, book your place HERE so the team can plan for numbers and refreshments.

What to expect:

• Real stories: Hear first-hand from adoptive parents about their journeys.
• Meet the team: Chat with social workers and learn about the adoption process and lifelong support.
• Relaxed atmosphere: Enjoy coffee, cake, and a friendly environment where you can ask questions at your own pace.

Whether you’re just curious or ready to begin, everyone is welcome! Caritas Care proudly supports families from diverse backgrounds, including LGBTQ+ and global majority communities.

6.30-7.30pm, Wednesday 15^th January 2025 – Online information event

Alternatively join Caritas Care at its online information event in the evening. This is a unique chance to explore the adoption process with guidance from their experienced adoption team and meet some of their adopters.

What to expect:

• Expert guidance: An Adoption Social Worker will lead you through the adoption process step-by-step.
• Real stories: Hear first-hand from adoptive parents about their experiences.

Why attend?

• Get answers to your questions and ease any uncertainties.
• Connect with professionals and gain a clear understanding of the adoption process.
• Gather the knowledge and support needed to make an informed decision.
• Take the first step on your adoption journey – Book your place HERE.

CCS Adoption (South West England)

6-7.30pm, Wednesday 15^th January 2025, The Park Centre, Daventry Road, Bristol, BS4 1DQ

CCS Adoption is a supportive and independent agency based in the South West, finding permanent, loving families for children who need them since 1904 and is particularly proud of its ‘Outstanding‘ Adoption Services (awarded in February 2024).

CCS is hosting its Big Adoption Day in-person event in its office space in Bristol, and free places can be booked using the form on the CCS website.

Coram (London and surrounding areas)

To mark Big Adoption Day 2025, Coram will be collaborating with the National Theatre which coincides with their new production of Ballet Shoes, Noel Streatfeild’s beloved story about three adopted sisters and their found family. The National Theatre and Coram will invite families and supports to the matinee and evening performances of Ballet Shoes, to experience the magic and power of storytelling through theatre.

Guests will be invited to attend a special panel discussion hosted by writer and broadcaster James O’Brien, who has spoken about his own experience of being adopted. Alongside the panel discussion guests will be offered bespoke family tours of the National Theatre, giving a glimpse behind the scenes of Ballet Shoes to discover the backstage magic and highly skilled team that bring the show to life.

During the run of Ballet Shoes, the National Theatre will also work with Coram to offer discounted tickets to members of the Consortium of Voluntary Adoption Agencies (CVAA) across the country.
Save the date and keep an eye on this page for further details on how to get your tickets in December!

5.30-7.30pm, Wednesday 22nd January 2025 – Adoption information session at Coram Campus, 41 Brunswick Square, London WC1N 1AZ

To celebrate Big Adoption Day, Coram Ambitious for Adoption is hosting a free information session about adoption at the Coram Campus in London. Please note this event is a week after Big Adoption Day, on Wednesday 22nd January and not 15th January.  If you live within the M25 area, come along to their free in-person Adoption Information Evening which will give you the opportunity to find out more about adoption and ask any questions you might have. These events are a great chance to learn general information about adoption and how to adopt through Coram.

Social workers will talk you through the types of children in need of permanent and loving families, the assessment process and the preparation process for new adopters, how children join their new families, and the kinds of post-adoption support that Coram has to offer. You will also have a chance to hear directly from adopters.

There will then be time to ask any questions you may have. It’s the ideal opportunity to find out more, whether you’re only just beginning to consider adoption or if you’re further down the line in the process.

Diagrama Adoption (London, Surrey, East and West Sussex and Kent)

12pm-1.30pm, Wednesday 15^th January, extra special free Lunchtime Q&A Session with adoptive parents

Diagrama Adoption will be celebrating Big Adoption Day with an extra special free Lunchtime Q&A Session with adoptive parents there to share their experiences with you. They will share their personal experiences of the journey and give an insight into their own experiences of adoption. You’ll be able to ask anything that is on your mind.

Our adopters will also answer questions about adopting a child with complex needs, an older child or siblings, as well as foster care arrangements for a child that can lead to adoption (usually called an Early Permanency placement).

Click here to book: https://tinyurl.com/4c22fbmw

6pm, Wednesday 15^th January, online information session

Diagrama is also holding its usual online information session at 6pm on Big Adoption Day, so to get more of your questions answered by their expert team we recommend you join that session too! This free online session will provide an overview on the adoption process and talk you through everything you need to know. Click here to book: https://tinyurl.com/mr35znj2

Family Futures (London)

6.30-8pm, Wednesday 15th January – online information evening

Join Family Futures this Big Adoption Day and explore the journey of adoption at their online information evening. Family Futures focuses on preparing adopters to parent children who wait the longest. Through a bespoke assessment process, they equip prospective parents with an understanding of the impact of trauma and provide therapeutic tools to support their child’s development.

Attendees will have the opportunity to connect with their social work team, hear from experienced adopters, and learn how Family Futures’ tailored approach empowers families to thrive. Book your place here.

Kibble Adoption (Scotland)

• Information Session 1 (In-person) 10am – 12 noon

• Information Session 2 (In-person) 2pm – 4pm

• Information Session 3 (Online) 7pm – 8pm

Wednesday 15th January at Kibble Adoption, Abbeyfield House, 1 Station Road, Paisley, PA1 2SB

Join Kibble Adoption which is hosting in-person events packed full of important information for Big Adoption Day 2025. If you are just curious or ready to begin your journey, this session is for you. See here for more information.

This session will provide you with:

• Insight into the adoption process
• Guidance on the steps to take
• Opportunities to ask questions
• Stories from adoptive families and experts.

You will also hear from Kibble’s experienced adoption team and Adoption Ambassadors.

To book please email kasrecruitment@kibble.org.

PACT (Southern and central England)

6.30-8.30pm, Wednesday 15^th January – online information event

“I really thought it was helpful, the right balance of realistic expectations, information on the process and experience.”

PACT provides outstanding-rated adoption services across southern and central England. It creates families by recruiting, assessing and approving people who want to become parents through adoption and matches them with children looking for their permanent, loving home. PACT provides specialist adoption support to all its families for life. PACT’s information events provide a warm and welcoming environment to find out more about the adoption process, ask any questions you may have and see if PACT is the right agency for you.

To book on, visit www.pactcharity.org/big-adoption-day or call our team on 0300 456 4800.

Big Adoption Day meet the PACT team – Wednesday 15^th January

Reading – 7 Southern Court, South Street, Reading RG1 4QS – 10am-3pm

Brighton – Projects The Lanes, Nile House, Nile Street, Brighton BN1 1HW – 10am-3pm

London (Vauxhall) – The Foundry, 17 Oval Way, London SE11 5RR – 12pm-4pm

Milton Keynes – Harben House, Tickford Street, Newport Pagnell MK16 9EY – 10am-3pm

Come and meet PACT’s adoption teams, ask any questions you may have about adoption and find out if PACT is the right adoption agency for you!

To book a slot, visit www.pactcharity.org/big-adoption-day or call PACT’s team on 0300 456 4800.

St David’s Adoption Service (Wales)

10am-2pm, Wednesday, 15 January 2025 – Drop in event at Chapter Arts Centre, Cardiff

Join St. David’s Adoption Service for Big Adoption Day 2025, which is an opportunity to learn how you could make a life-changing difference to the children in Wales who are waiting for an adoptive family. Whether you’re exploring adoption for the first time or taking the next step in your journey, St David’s can guide you. This is a drop-in event so there is no need to book – more information is available here.

What to expect:

• Meet the experts: Speak with the dedicated team at St David’s to learn about the adoption process and how VAAs like St. David’s provide unparalleled support.
• Real-life stories: Hear inspiring experiences from adoptive families and discover how adoption changes lives—for children and parents alike.
• Find out more: Learn how adoption through a VAA offers a bespoke, supportive service and why 96% of VAAs are rated highly by national inspectorates.

St Andrews Children’s Society (Scotland – within a 60 mile radius of Edinburgh, Aberdeen and Elgin)

6-7.30pm, 15^th January 2025 – Online information event

St Andrew’s Children’s Society is very pleased to be holding a Virtual Adoption Information Event on Wednesday, 15 January from 6pm to 7.30pm as part of Big Adoption Day 2025. The event will take place virtually over Teams, and you can sign up on Eventbrite here.

At the event you’ll hear about the adoption process and from a St Andrew’s adopter, who will speak about their experiences of adopting and answer any questions you have. St Andrew’s Children’s Society helps people to adopt who live within a 60 mile radius of Edinburgh, Aberdeen and Elgin. They welcome adoption enquiries from people who follow a faith, those who don’t, single people, couples and members of the LGBTQ+ community.

If you would like to find out more about adopting, but can’t make it the event, please call 0131 454 3370 or email info@standrews-children.org.uk and they will get back to you.

Yorkshire Adoption Agency (Yorkshire and surrounding areas)

7pm, Tuesday 7th January – ChatAdopt session

Please note this event is not on Big Adoption Day itself. ChatAdopt is open to anyone looking into UK adoption, no matter where you are in your journey. Whether you are wondering about adoption being right for you, all the way through to being registered to start Stage 1 of the process.

The session will give you a brief insight into the UK adoption journey and the process. It will give you the chance to learn more about Yorkshire Adoption Agency and what it provides to its families.  The groups are kept small to give you plenty of time to ask any questions, and they try to have an adopter present to share their experiences adopting with the agency.

Yorkshire Adoption Agency is also collaborating with several Yorkshire based organisations as part of its Big Adoption Day celebrations to celebrate how magical the very first family day out is for our adopters and how important bonding as a family is.

Find out more about what a VAA is here.

Visit CVAA’s agency finder to find your local VAA.

Big Adoption Day, led by the UK’s first children’s charity Coram with the Consortium of Voluntary Adoption Agencies UK (CVAA), will see participating agencies hosting in-person and online events in their local areas, and celebrating the real-life stories of families who have adopted, to encourage anyone interested in exploring adoption to find out more.

A list of all VAA events taking place across the UK can be found here.

With 2,600 children currently waiting to be adopted across England, of whom 1,230 have been waiting more than 18 months* and most of whom are aged under five, there is an urgent need for more prospective adoptive parents to come forward to provide permanent, loving homes for these children.

Big Adoption Day will highlight the benefits of adopting through a VAA which provide a bespoke service for adopters and offer an alternative choice to statutory regional adoption services by working across local authority areas. 96% of VAAs are rated highly or very highly by their national inspectorates.** With a century of experience, VAAs have placed thousands of children with adoptive families and provide ongoing support to enable them to thrive through family days, counselling, school liaison, therapeutic services and peer support.

Dr Carol Homden, CEO of Coram, said: “Big Adoption Day gives us an important opportunity to come together across the sector with the shared purpose of finding more loving families for the growing numbers of children waiting.

“We celebrate all the amazing families who have embraced the life-changing and rewarding journey of adoption. We hope Big Adoption Day will inspire others to take their first step and join one of the events taking place across the country where they can find out how we can support them throughout the adoption process and beyond.”

Satwinder Sandhu, CEO of CVAA, said: “We are proud to mark Big Adoption Day as it recognises the vital contribution the voluntary sector makes to the lives of the most vulnerable children across the UK. We support 22 member agencies with their efforts to recruit and support adoptive families from every type of background and VAAs go the extra mile in providing essential support at all stages of the journey and for life.

“Having worked for voluntary adoption agencies myself I am personally connected to many young adults who were placed as babies and toddlers with adopters I worked with. I know from them that it was the support from their parents and their VAAs that made the difference so we hope that others considering adoption will be inspired to attend Big Adoption Day events to find out more.”

To find your local VAA visit our agency finder.

CVAA and its members are fully committed to the modernisation of adoption, and therefore welcome the publication of the final Public Law Working Group report on adoption, Recommendations for best practice in respect of adoption. We thank Justice Judd for leading such an important and mammoth piece of work and commend all those that contributed to it. The report contains a raft of thoughtful and sensible recommendations to ensure that adoptees are properly supported in how they explore and develop their identities, including having better access to vital information about their personal histories. We welcome these recommendations, many of which strengthen guidance and regulations that are already in place. We also welcome the long overdue attention to other areas of practice, notably access to records and adoptions with an international element, both of which play a significant role in the work of CVAA’s member agencies. We are also pleased that, whilst it does not have the remit to address the legal structure of adoption, the report recognises that focus on this does need to happen.

Whilst the report is comprehensive and representative of the social care’s sector direction of travel,   the final report itself compels CVAA to express the same views we have shared before.

It is inarguable that such a seismic shift in thinking and practice – particularly in relation to how adopted children’s relationships are managed – will require significant investment. Voluntary adoption agencies are acutely aware of the potential value of face-to-face contact for adopted children, after proper assessments have been undertaken and with solid support plans in place. Yet they have also seen the harm which can be done to children and the potential for re-traumatisation when these relationships are explored without specialist support which is routinely available and also supports an ongoing review of all plans in place for all affected children and birth families. We are also acutely mindful that the modernisation of adoption is much more than about maintaining relationships, as the core psychology behind the separation and loss involved for all children needing adoption is complex and lifelong.

New and sustained funding is absolutely critical for the sector if the recommendations in this report are to be realised and delivered, otherwise this report will soon become redundant. Funding would make it feasible for the adoption sector to deliver the proposed changes – supporting birth parents for example, reviewing contact plans over time, and thoroughly exploring all types of connection, including digital. Investment would also make possible the extensive training needed for all professionals involved in adoption, from social workers to judges and lawyers.

It is important to emphasise that investment would also reach far beyond the small numbers of children adopted each year. This would be an investment in all care-experienced children, in their futures as adults, and society as a whole. It is how we will get to a future of care-experienced adult communities who feel secure in who they are, valued and capable, and live fulfilling lives defined by positive relationships. VAAs have this aspiration for every child they work with and are desperate to improve the system for them, so are calling for further financial weight behind this report so that its ambition can be realised.

Further information

CVAA’s response to the draft PLWG report published in December 2023 is available here.

The response from VAA Family Futures to the report is available here.

CVAA’s vision for a new a new network and hub (‘My People’) to support adopted children’s relationships is available here.

Published 7^th November 2024

At CVAA, which represents voluntary adoption agencies (VAAs) across the UK, this message feels very important when it comes to finding the right families for children. We want people from all walks of life to see this life path as an option to them, and feel comfortable taking steps to learning more about adoption.

It is therefore vital that adoption agencies fully measure how well they are doing at welcoming people from all backgrounds, to learn and improve. As a result, this National Adoption Week we have carried out new analysis on Coram-i’s ‘adopter characteristics’ data, to understand the statistics on VAA adoption orders and adopter diversity.

We first looked at the number of adoption orders made to LGBT adopters. We were blown away to find that over one in four VAA adoptions (27%) are to LGBT adopters. This is a phenomenal increase from 16% in 2018/19 and even from last year when the proportion was 21%. It is also significantly higher than statutory agencies, for which fewer than one in five adoptions (17%) are to LGBT adopters.

We then looked at the number of adoption orders made to adopters from minoritised ethnic backgrounds. We discovered that VAAs have consistently been around twice as likely to have AOs made to people from these communities, compared with statutory agencies. Yet after some improvements increasing diversity in recent years, the latest year showed a slightly less diverse picture with 12% of VAA adoptions being to those from minoritised ethnic groups rather than 15% in 2021/22.

This last graph shows that VAAs have more work to do to support people from these backgrounds considering adoption, which is a challenge we are rising to. Our strategy published in April focuses on adopter and sector diversity – supporting VAAs to embed learning so that those from a wide range of ethnic, cultural and social backgrounds, feel confident coming forward to adopt and that all services are delivered through an equitable and inter-sectional approach, rooted in anti-discriminatory practice.

At our upcoming November conference we’re very pleased that Dr Tam Cane, University of Sussex, will be delivering a morning session on how agencies can better support children and families from culturally diverse backgrounds and embed these principles at the heart of what voluntary agencies do.

We’ll keep publishing updates on our progress on our blog.

25th October 2024

There’s no such thing as a ‘normal’ family, according to 65 per cent of Brits – this comes as National Adoption Week (21-27 October) has launched today to increase understanding of modern adoption and show that ‘the journey to a family is not always a traditional one’.

The survey by You Can Adopt has also revealed that the vast majority of the public (87 per cent) feel it’s important to teach children that families come in all shapes and sizes, and that this promotes acceptance of children from non-traditional family units (60 per cent). However, half of the public surveyed (50 per cent) were not taught this themselves when growing up.

The survey explored changing attitudes to family life, as National Adoption Week highlights the diversity of adoption journeys today, and the significant people who are there to navigate the path.

It was also revealed that nearly half of Brits (48 per cent) say they have a ‘chosen family’, while only a third (37 per cent) felt that ‘blood’ was an important factor in defining a family. The term ‘chosen family’ recognises relationships and support networks that exist in parallel to the immediate family and indicates changing perceptions over what defines a modern family unit. Meanwhile, 42 per cent of the public consider themselves to belong to a non-traditional family – such as blended, extended, adoptive, or single parent.

Sarah Johal MBE, National Adoption Strategic Lead from Adoption England, said: 

“With the number of children needing adoption increasing and a decline in those coming forward, it’s crucial during National Adoption Week to raise the profile of modern adoption. We hope to show that adoptive families are not alone, they have a community of support around them – from social workers and foster carers to others who have walked the same path. Some are there for the whole journey, others just for one small part, and of course birth families remain an important part of a child’s identity throughout their life. But each of these people plays an important part in the lifelong nature of the adoption journey that makes each family’s experience unique.”

To mark the theme of ‘The Journey’ a new short film, set onboard a train, follows the stories of three adoptive families on their travels, reflecting on the ups, downs and detours of their lifelong journey.

Rachel, who features in the film alongside her two-year-old adopted daughter Winnie, father Daniel and social worker Becky, said: “You have an idea in your head of what family looks like, and for us it’s been different, but even more wonderful in different ways. For me, it’s really important that Winnie has a sense of herself and her identity – that she understands that not only do all families look different, but she has more than one family, and that’s OK.”

This comes as latest data shows there has been a 22 per cent increase in the number of children with a plan for adoption not yet matched with an adoptive family in England in 2023-4, compared to the previous year, meaning there are 780 more children not yet placed with a family, than there are approved adopters waiting to be matched with a child. With fewer potential adopters coming forward – believed to largely be a result of the cost-of-living crisis – this means that nearly half (47 per cent) of all children face delays of over 18 months to be placed with an adoptive family.

In support of the campaign, train companies across the country including Southeastern Railway, Hull Trains and Avanti are encouraging more people to start their own adoption journey. From offering free tickets for adoptive families, to changing digital signage at train stations, rail companies are rallying behind the cause in support of everybody who is part of an adoptive family or considering embarking on their own adoption journey. 

National Adoption Week has also seen the publication of the new ‘Adopter Journey Standards’. The standards act as guidance and highlight what adopters can expect from their agency and social worker through the adoption journey, from providing prospective adopters with preparation training and resources, to facilitating Family Network Days to help the wider family reflect on how they will be able to support adopters and their adopted children. 

To find out more about adopting with a voluntary adoption agency, visit Agency Finder – Consortium of Voluntary Adoption Agencies 

CVAA is delighted to welcome its newest member Kibble Adoption. A brand new Voluntary Adoption Agency (VAA) and the first in Scotland in the last 15 years, Kibble is now one of 5 VAAs in the region.

Kibble’s vision is to ‘Transform Lives, Families and Communities’ and the development of Kibble Adoption is in direct response to the needs of children requiring loving adoptive families in Scotland.

You can find out more about the agency via its website: Homepage – Kibble Adoption

• Adoption experts have described an ‘unprecedented’ decline in adoption rates – for the first time in recent years, there are now more children in need of adoption than those coming forward to adopt. 
• With the cost of living hitting families, experts warn that prospective adopters may be holding back waiting for the ‘perfect time’ or circumstances. But for a child needing a permanent home, the perfect time is now. 
• This comes as a new survey reveals that six in ten (57 per cent) parents said they ‘never felt truly prepared’ to be a parent, and 72 per cent said there is no such thing as a ‘perfect time’ to start a family. However, 83 per cent now consider it the most rewarding experience of their life. 
• You Can Adopt has launched a new campaign, The Journey, to inspire more people to take the first step towards growing their family – with a new film showing that like any family ‘road trip’, adoption is a journey full of challenges, chaos, conversation, and love. 
• The campaign is supported by BBC’s ‘The Traitors’ contestant Miles Asteri, adoptive father of two, who described adoption as ‘the adventure of a lifetime’. 

 Adoption experts have warned of a ‘concerning’ decline in adoption rates. For the first time in recent years, there are now more children in need of a permanent home than those coming forward to adopt, with a 14 per cent increase in children needing an adoptive family, compared to 2022-23. Latest data, also shows that 15 per cent fewer children were placed with an adoptive family in the last quarter. 

 In response, You Can Adopt has today launched its latest recruitment campaign, The Journey, which aims to inspire more people to take the first step towards growing their family. You Can Adopt is a nationwide adopter recruitment programme run by Adoption England. 

 The campaign comes in the midst of the cost-of-living crisis, which has heightened parental anxieties about finding the ‘perfect’ time and circumstances to start a family, especially for prospective adopters – with nine in 10 saying it has directly affected their adoption decisions. Like any new parents, many prospective adopters worry about their ability to cope, but experts are highlighting that adoption is a journey that can be navigated with a range of support available at every stage. 

 To mark the launch, new survey data reveals feeling underprepared for parenthood is very common among all parents. Being emotionally ready (44 per cent), earning lots of money (22 per cent), being at the right point in their career (19 per cent) were among the most common concerns before people start a family. However, six in ten (57 per cent) of parents in fact said, ‘they never truly felt prepared to become a parent’ and 72 per cent said there is no such thing as a ‘perfect time’ to start a family. 

 While 77 per cent felt it was the most challenging thing they have ever done; this was outweighed by the 83 per cent who consider parenting as the most rewarding experience of their lives. The results have been released by You Can Adopt as it highlights that, while the path may not always be smooth, the rewards of giving a child a loving, stable home are unparalleled. 

Sarah Johal, National Adoption Strategic Lead for Adoption England, said: “Every child deserves a loving, permanent home, so it’s concerning to see that, for the first time in recent years, the number of children in need of a permanent home is now greater than those registered to adopt. In many parts of the country this is having a very real and unprecedented impact on the numbers of children able to find their forever family. We’re encouraging anyone considering adoption to take the first step in their journey – don’t wait for the ‘perfect’ time. Like all parenting, adoption is not always easy and there will be bumps in the road, but there is lots of support available – including, emotional and therapeutic. I would encourage anyone who is thinking about growing their family to just take that first step.” 

 A new campaign film follows adoptive families on their travels, reflecting research findings that highlight the ups and downs of ‘family journeys’. According to the new survey, the public commonly associate family trips with getting lost (27 per cent), sibling bickering (24 per cent) and spillages (17 per cent). However, these chaotic moments are far outweighed by the positives, such as special memories (43 percent), excitement for the destination (42 per cent) and bonding time (39 percent). The results have been highlighted by You Can Adopt to show that much like any family trip, adoption is an adventure filled with chaos, challenges, conversations – and love.  

 Adopters from all walks of life are sharing their own journeys as part of the campaign, including adoptive father-of-two Miles Asteri, star of the BBC’s The Traitors. Miles said: “Adoption has always been a part of my life, as my mother was also adopted, and so we knew it would be the right way to grow our family. Before you adopt it’s natural to have lot of questions or worries. But I don’t think anyone truly feels prepared for the experience of becoming a parent until their child makes them one. Like all families with young kids, we’ve had our chaotic moments, but it’s been rewarding like nothing else – watching our daughters grow into the wonderful little people they are is an unparalleled feeling. I would urge anyone thinking about adoption to just start that journey – for us, it’s been the adventure of a lifetime.” 

 Miles is also hosting a new podcast episode from You Can Adopt, where he discusses his own experience with adoption, alongside single adopter, Alexandra.  

We Are Family (WAF) is delighted to announce a strategic partnership with Yorkshire Adoption Agency (YAA) to enhance support and grow a sense of community for adoptive families. This partnership provides YAA members access to WAF’s online digital platform, offering numerous resources, peer support opportunities, and educational tools.

We Are Family empowers adoptive families through various services, including peer support groups, expert-led webinars, and an extensive resource library. With its recorded talks and educational materials, WAF’s online Member Hub ensures adoptive parents have opportunities to vital information and community support throughout their adoption journey. The platform is designed to be user-friendly and accessible, catering to the diverse needs of adoptive families and instilling a sense of capability and confidence.

In addition to peer support, WAF’s platform provides access to mental health resources, parenting strategies, and adoption-related guidance from experts. The collaboration with YAA will facilitate a more extensive reach, ensuring adoptive families in Yorkshire benefit from these resources and connect with a wider community of adopters.

Yorkshire Adoption Agency, a pillar of support for adoptive families across the region, is committed to providing personalised and compassionate services. YAA’s services, including pre-adoption training, post-adoption support, and regular events to develop community among adoptive families, are all designed to make adoptive families feel cared for and understood. YAA’s experienced team works closely with families to ensure that each child’s needs are met and that adoptive parents feel supported every step of the way, reinforcing the sense of care and understanding.

Lisa Barker, Director of We Are Family, stated, “We are thrilled to collaborate with Yorkshire Adoption Agency. Together, we can extend our reach and ensure that more adoptive families receive the support they need, when they need it, throughout their journey.”

Sue May, Director of Yorkshire Adoption Agency, added, “Yorkshire Adoption Agency is thrilled to be working in partnership with We are Family, which leads the field in peer-led adopter support. This partnership will give our adopters access to a huge range of professional webinars, podcasts and other resources. We will also benefit from their expertise in setting up local peer-led adopter groups to complement our existing offer and provide a safe social haven for our community of adopters.”

In this blog post we’re sharing our recommendations for the next government on adoption support, which we have developed in collaboration with voluntary adoption agencies across the UK. You can find adapted versions for Scotland and Wales here. We know that this is a subject which affects all adoptive families and, with further government investment, could have a profound impact on the lives of children and parents alike.

We hope this information will be useful for any interactions you have in the run up to the election, and we’d love to hear about any successes you have. You can read our full Manifesto for Adoption here.

We are calling on the new government to provide timely support which prioritises early intervention

Since its inception, the Adoption Support Fund has been transformational for children, and its continuation is essential to ensuring children’s permanence and stability in their adoptive families. However, it must be acknowledged that despite this, overall support from adopted people remains woefully inadequate, including within our schools. The next government must therefore introduce measures which can provide more children with the right support at the right time including within education setting and at key transition moments.

Specifically, we want:

• An ongoing commitment for the continuation of the rebranded Adoption and Special Guardian Support Fund (ASGSF) recognising the continuing need for families to be able to access therapeutic interventions. As part of this, the £5,000 annual cap per child for therapy (and £2500 for assessment) should also be reviewed in light of the high rates of inflation with the aim of creating a clear methodology for the fund to continue to increase each year as is the case with interagency fees.
• A commitment that every child placed for adoption has an assessed multidisciplinary support plan with a duty to deliver it. This could be similar to the current EHCP Plan for children with SEND and link in closely with schools and education providers.
• Equal access to the ASGSF regardless of whether the placement was made by a statutory or voluntary adoption agency.
• A commitment to increase mental health support and provision for adopted teens given the evidence that this can be a key period in their development and placement stability and expert support is crucial to ensuring a positive transition into adulthood.
• Mandating training for teachers, via Virtual Schools, on how to support care experienced children and take a trauma-informed approach in the classroom. This will require amendments to be made to the current Teacher Standards.

More recommendations can be found in our Manifesto for Adoption which relate to 5 key areas: recognising the value of adoption; reducing delay for all children, particularly those who wait the longest; supporting adopted children’s identity needs; timely support which prioritises early intervention and developing more trauma-informed schools; and acknowledging the lifelong impact of trauma.

Lastly, we are always keen to hear from adoptive parents and adoptees who want to be involved in campaigning or work influencing government adoption policy. If this is of interest, please get in touch with Alice Talbot from CVAA who can share further information on how to do this: alice.talbot@cvaa.org.uk.

Midlands-based charity Adoption Focus is currently celebrating its 15^th anniversary as a Voluntary Adoption Agency (VAA).

Adoption Focus was established in June 2009, and since then has grown to be one of the largest VAAs in the country and has placed more than 700 children with 500 new families.

Many of these families joined Adoption Focus team members and volunteers for an anniversary celebration party last weekend featuring music, face painting, a buffet, a bouncy castle, garden games, a storyteller, arts and crafts, and dance activities.

Adoption Focus CEO, Anna Sharkey, said:

“We’re very grateful to everyone who joined us for our celebration party and made it such a success. It’s always a pleasure to spend time with our adopters and their children and catch up on their continuing stories. For this event, we were joined by families who adopted in our earliest days as an agency, whose children are now young adults, as well as much more recent adopters enjoying their first few months of family life. It was a lovely reminder of how our staff, trustees, and volunteers work together with adopters to enable every child to have a family in which they can grow, thrive, feel loved, know who they are, where they come from and where they belong. Here’s to the next 15 years – working together to improve lives.”

Other plans to mark the charity’s landmark year include a fundraising campaign to support their work with children who’ve had a challenging start in life, and the release of a special podcast episode in which Nathan looks back on his journey as a single adopter, 10 years after his sons were first placed with him. They are also actively recruiting potential adopters to provide safe, loving homes for vulnerable children in the months and years to come.

Adoption Focus is an Ofsted ‘Outstanding’ rated adoption agency operating across the whole of the central England region, from Cheshire across to Lincolnshire in the north, down to Gloucestershire and Buckinghamshire in the south. For more information about their services, please call them on 0121 779 0891 or visit www.adoption-focus.org.uk.